Today I'd like to discuss crushes that become infatuation. Everyone had or has someone they really like and can't stop thinking about. I think liking someone should come naturally and grow gradually. Its not something that should only go off visual attraction, make sure to get to know the person to be sure they are even worth liking. Make sure you like this person for the right reasons as well.
People tend to place "ideals" on others and expect them to be who they want to like. You got to BE YOURself, not who someone wants you to be for their vain and selfish reasons.
At times liking a person a lot can get you caught up, you become "infatuated".
Sometimes in life we see the things we want or think we want.....
We become blinded by this want to the point where it becomes a need.....when we do this we are causing our desires to exploit our minds and manipulate our hearts.
God knows your wants, but He will give you what you need. He knows us better than we know ourselves. Our flesh is weak and when we are not in that relationship with God, our minds can be easily swayed towards sin. "My flesh and my heart faileth; But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever". Psalms 73:26
In matters of the heart, sometimes our desires for a man/woman become an infatuation. In the bible Jeremiah 17:9 says "The heart is deceitful above all things and it is corrupt, who can know it?". Not even we know our heart, maybe that's why it beats on the left because it is not always right......
God IS Love. When you know God you will know love, you will know your heart and will not be binded by unrequited love.
Sometimes we have to trust that even though we may not know our hearts, God does. He will set us in the right direction as we walk along that path of His grace. - 1 John 3:20 "because if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things".
You reap what you sow. Love God, yourself, and others and you will see amazing things happen in your life. We all grow in different paces but the goal should always be the same.
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